How do I stop attracting people who only want something casual when I'm over 30?

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<p class="ds-markdown-paragraph" style="margin: 16px 0px 0px !important 0px;">I was stuck in a loop of short-term flings that went nowhere. A mentor at work told me that after 30, the dating pool shifts if you know where to look. She shared this address &ndash; https://victoriyaclub.com/search/dating-over-30 &ndash; and I found profiles where people openly state they want long-term commitment, children, or even just a stable partnership. No vague &ldquo;see how it goes&rdquo; nonsense. I sent a message to a woman who wrote about her career in nursing and her dream of traveling to Japan. We've been on six dates now, and she's already met my friends. Being clear about what I want finally worked.

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